By Bob Lowry
How? By living under one simple rule: instead of worrying about how much money you need, base your lifestyle on what you have. That is worth repeating: instead of worrying about how much money you need, base your lifestyle on what you have. Determine what your life will look like on that reality and live accordingly. Instead of following the siren call of ever greater expectations and wants, be content in how people used to live in retirement: comfortable with what was available.
Do you play golf? Fine, but do you have to play at Troon North in Scottsdale where a round in season tops $250 dollars? Not as fancy, but golf at a municipal course may cost $45.
Do you want to travel in an RV? Great. Do you need a 45 foot super unit, or is a popup camper a better fit for you?
Do you plan on gardening more after retirement? That is rather inexpensive if you don’t recreate the Hanging Gardens of Babylon. How about exercising? Walking at the mall or around your neighborhood is free. Weights and exercise bands cost less than a month at the gym. Maybe you like the gym with all the equipment, pool, and sauna. Fine. It is cheaper and better for you than doctor visits due to poor health.
Play with the grandkids? Free. Go out to dinner with friends? No problem, but does it have to be at the steak house that charges $50 for 6 ounces? Have you ever considered a potluck at your house? If it is good enough for schools and church, why can’t it work at home?
I guess it all comes down to your expectations. And my experience is they change the longer you are retired. The dreams of cruising the world, jetting off to spend the summer in Italy, or having a vacation home in Aspen begin to lose their luster as you age. Why? Because priorities change. Time with family and friends, giving something of yourself back to the community through volunteer work, a new passion for writing or biking or gardening suddenly become more important to you than spending spring in Tuscany. This approach is simply a conscious choice to live a mostly frills-free retirement.
Certainly you can decide that working longer or harder, or gambling on riskier investments so that you can have the baubles, the vacation home in the Cayman Islands and a new car every year would make you happy. Then, you will need a $4 million retirement fund. Just don’t be surprised if the tricked-out retirement lifestyle wears thin after a while and you find you aren’t as happy as you though you might be.
|Life on the front porch with an iced tea. The way it once was, and can be again.|
Or, you could approach retirement more like your grandparents did: a time to savor life, use your talents and skills, and strengthen your relationships. Live life with the money you have, not with the money you can only dream about.
I wager you will be happier. Want to bet?