When that happens what will you do? Will that glass start to look more empty than full? Will you become withdrawn because of your physical limitations or the loss of important relationships? Will you lash out at the world for the unfairness of it all?
Or, will you have the ability to shrink your glass? Will you look at the limitations and be able to say, “OK, I can’t do what I once did. I can’t live how I once could. This is what I can do now. And even though my glass is smaller, my life is still pretty good, and that glass is still at least half full.”
I will readily admit my life to this point has been a rather smooth ride. There have been a few problems, but certainly nothing on the scale of what so many of you share in your life stories on these pages. I will also admit I expect my situation to change at some point. My life is not a fairy tale; it will have some chapters that I would rather not experience but must.
Then my half glass take on life with be tested. I believe my faith will provide me with the support I need to handle what is coming at some point. But, how I will react is still an unknown. When those situations arise I hope I can remember the lesson of the smaller glass.
More than any other part of retirement, be it financial, health, relationships, passions…..whatever….I firmly believe attitude spells the difference between a disappointing or unhappy retirement and one that is satisfying. Why? Because my attitude is 100% within my control. The world can throw everything against me to try and break my spirit. But, it cannot determine how I decide to react.
That is up to me. And, my glass will remain at least half full, regardless of how small a glass life decides to give me.